PHASE

 Pardon: This is the first word that has come to my mind each time I discuss a new part of ny journey. Why is this word used you may ask yourself. Because of one simple word phase. Phase was does that have to do with it well when I came out couple years ago gay everyone or almost everyone was giving me attitude or telling me it was all a phase you'll be back with girls in no time. Same thing when I came out as bi and was having feelings both ways. 

 Now that I'm out as non binary I have a load telling me this is just your easy way to be with anyone anytime. That to me was a very mind blowing statement I couldn't believe or others saying there is no such thing. Even more remarkable. 

 Hindsight: Coming out as non binary has really given me lot of Hindsight into the world. It shows who can't be bothered to look past anything they have in there life or believe. Or they have to be correct no matter what the case may be. 

Attitude: Truly I have gotten a closer look at so many people's attitudes since the two words non binary and my oh my. Some of the things that I've heard just amazing.

 Sex: Not in the way you may see and think of the word. More like there is a real examining factor of the word like are you truly fully the sex you were born? Or are you split a little bit. These are questions I've been asking myself for years and all the answers are coming out. 

 Enigma: Life as we know it truly is an enigma it's never been what we expected. So often not the best thing. But there are those times it's a pleasant surprise.

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