Newlytravels

 🏳️‍🌈 As many of you know who have been reading my blogs, especially my coming out blogs. I am no longer going by my given/birth name. My name I am going by us now Quinn and I actually love both using it and hearing it, it makes me so happy to be reborn in a way. I thought it was interesting for lack of a better word when I discovered my bisexual/Non binary side.   Well I must say I'm much more blissful relaxed and enjoying my new life with the last few weeks coming out to people as Bisexual/Non binary/ Genderfluid. I feel in many ways I can be much more expressive and not have to worry about how I express myself. Well except to my family unfountunatley that will always be a tricky spot. But I did expect resistance I guess because of my moms bringing up and in situations like this my dad kind of goes along with everything.  I know this isn't what most Non Binary people would do I identify a bit different. With my pronouns. Well for the time at least shall we say. W...

  I've sort of suspected for a while but after rereading a few of my entries and different things I have come yo solid decision. The solid decision I have come to is I have a family that is "hidden homophobic". So how do I mean hidden homophic well that's actually very easy to explain as much as I wish it wasn't.  When I came out I was loved and embraced by my immediate family, mother father sister and brother in law. It was such a great feeling being accepted when I was afraid I wouldn't be. Well I only thought I was being fully accepted ya right not exactly. In my view fully accepted meant treating me totally like there son or brother. I felt like I was truly in a safe space and relaxed for a good long while.  Then different things started happening where it made my family look more homophobic than non homophobic. That was odd because they accepted a family member and a long friend of family. They had no issue with them . But somehow all the issues came out ...