Newlytravels

  Last Saturday was an anniversary, however not a good anniversary. It now has been 10 years since our family friend Huey Quinn passed away. It sure dosent seem that way. I was telling a couple of people about it and both talked to me but they talked to me using my pronouns.  The first person said to me I think they chose the name Quinn to help you remember him. Also to keep some of his spirit in your soul. I can tell that you are being a good person especially when using this name. Also when you think about yourself I know you think of cinema and comics, I sort of see Harley Quinn in you. Also she tied back to our family friend who passed and said from what they have been saying it sounds like they had a good soul like yours.  The other person  said to me a bit of the same thing. Like it looks like they had a really goid friend and subconsciously you wanted to remember them. I said that was probably part of it as I had mentioned before. Also I have a what I would co...

  Last Thursday til Sunday we had had beat retreat, heart csmp in person for first time since covid. It was great everyone knew I was now Quinn and they all called me Quinn. Of course there were a few slips but they corrected themselves and then immediately apologized. So I told one of the volunteers I was going by Quinn and am non binary.  After I told her she asked me if I changed it legally. I had said no it will be hard with ODSP and things going on at home. She said look until you legally change it I won't be calling you anything but David because that's your name not Quinn.  Quinn is not valid until it's your legal name.   Then there was a  conversation where she was discussing with others LGBTQ and other things. She said I don't care if your boy girl black chinesse white as long as your respectful we can get along. Even said knew a trans person. But because I couldn't change name legally I couldn't get same respect.