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ANNIVERSARY RECOMMITMENT

  This month on the 8th was my anniversary with my partner Jennifer. However it was a weekday so we delayed the celebration until the 10th. It actually worked out in a good way as we were not only able to celebrate our anniversary but we also did a recommitment ceremony. It was a really incredible day aside from the obvious of course I had a former teacher witness our ceremony.  He was my all time favorite teacher such a wonderful gentleman and one of the people who I had mentioned first helped me come out. Tom Gallagher my former drama teacher. One of the people who gave me so much advice. He was really happy when I recently told him I was indentifying as transgender non-binary. His response was I am so happy your finding yourself Quinn   Now the ceremony was a wonderful day with Jennifer meeting Tom and seeing both of them hit it off. I was expecting that but was so happy to see it. Both Jen and I loved the day especially when we exchanged new vows to each other fe...

MY EGG HATCHING

  For such a very long I had the feeling my "egg" wasn't correct and it needed to be cracked. I put them in a normal way or suppressed them but also had feelings that I was more feminine than masculine on many occasions. I thought for a while it was just questioning myself as a gay man or bisexual man.   Then I landed in a very euphoric place and at first I came out under the trans umbrella. One thing that helped me was saying I'm not CIS I said this out loud and that really helped. Saying Non Binary Gender fluid. I actually was telling people how comfortable I felt.   So then when I started wearing feminine clothes even with my masculine look I was getting people call me she mam her.  I knew it for sure in two areas when I was called she by my partner and man and she at my poker game. I felt such an awesome release.  Those two times I went home smiled and had tears such happy tears. Tears of saying wow this truly is me and people appreciate me in my t...