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OUR TERMS OF ENDEARMENT

  In every other relationship I have been in, including other times my current GF and I were together they were either my GF or my partner/BF. We also had terms of endearment that we would like to use with each other. Things like shutterbug, butterfly for a couple of examples. Then yes with everyone dated typical ones like sweetie hun babe.  With this relationship because of my non binary Transgender identity I got the most awesome nickname/term of endearment ever.  Instead of BF or just hun sweetie I am referred to as a Joyfriend. Joyfriend it makes my heart leap and feel so awesome. Because it's such a gender neautral name that can be used with anyone. Going out and hearing this is my Joyfriend makes me smile and gives me a huge great feeling inside. Nicknames really can be amazing for sure. 

TRANSMASC OR TRANSFEM INTERESTRD IN OPINION

  I had heard a few people describe me as a slightly masculine non binary person, and I have also been told I am a non binary trans fem person. I am writing this entry to tie everything and give my perspective on the views. See what everybody's opinion of the subject is.   Over time when I came out slowly to everyone as non binary at first, then non binary Transgender person people who actually not surprised. So I've gone over and talked to friends asked them where they would place me spectrum wise. Male non binary Transgender. Then on other option non binary Transgender Fem.   For myself I'm leaning towards Nonbinary transgender 55/45 fem with feelings. Many people I have approached without me telling them my feelings and thoughts. The majority have said to me Quinn we definitely have seen a bit of larger fem side. They would also tell me they had seen it from day one of meeting me. It was definitely interesting to find this out. Thanks to everyone for your opi...

A TRIO OF PREFERED NAMES

  I just recently started looking to see if Quinn was the name the was "fully me". Don't get me wrong I absolutely love Quinn and it's so fabulous and euphoric for sure. However I had been sort  of searching for something thar went with it or a new one. I have actually wound up doing that.  The name is Onyx and it will be looking like this  Onyx-Quinn Bezer. Because both names are in the name I will accept both Onyx or Quinn. Because of coming out to everyone as Quinn. I of course will also accept and really appreciate all of my pronouns. The pronouns of They/Them abd depending where I am and who I'm with her/she. So I have a trilogy that can be used Onyx Quinn my pronouns.