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  I was thinking after the pist I wrote yesterday and the conversation between my niece and parent's about the wedding. Well actually two things about the wedding one was a bit selfish so I scrapped it. Or I think it was a bit selfish so I will get into them.  As I mentioned last night it was upsetting that I was referred to as David and will most likely be invited to the wedding as David. Eventhough my niece said she would use preferred name and pronouns as well as her fiance.   One thing I was thinking of about the wedding and one of the least impactful or in my opinion anyway.   I had planned on giving a speech saying as Quinn I am very happy to.welcome Wade to our family. Yes it's true that Greg's family knows me as my former name but I am introducing myself in my as Quinn in my toast. That would cause nothing but major problems that I truly don't need    Another thing I was thinking about was what would be a cool would be to show up part...

  Feiday my niece was over with sister to visit with everyone and have a coffee. While she was over dad was asking about her fiance and how the job searching was going, both here and in B.C. She ssid both places have really good prospects and B C  will always have stuff for him.  Then my dad brought up the wedding and was asking about the numbers. My niece said probably no more than 50 each. My niece said for me a bunch of friends my wedding party and of course the family.   She pulled out her phone and went through everyone said Pappa you Nanna and of course uncle Dave. This was a bit kick as while ago my niece told me Wade and I will  use your preferred name and pronouns ftom now on. But I'm on thier list as uncle Dave not as my preferred name Quinn I was thinking WTF ugh.