WHAT IS REALLY SAID,

   What exactly do I mean by this title? Well ok it's pretty easy from my view. It's the total double standard of life that we all see once or twice the very common double standard. As I mentioned before my family was hugs and happy when I was finally able to come out after many years of being in the closet.

 Then as I have mentioned I only am supposed to be out if I am at home or if somebody else is the one who mentions it. I'll give you a couple of examples one of my moms friends saw my pride ring and said oh thats nice. Told her I came out as bisexual and non binary she told me oh its great your living your life in true way.

 Then my youngest niece after some confusion over a card said oh uncle of course I'll use your name and pronouns I have a non binary friend plus I know how hard being "catholic" plus our family it was for you to take this step.

 Then we get into what is said or so I have been told. Like my family in Australia is so stunned they don't talk when they call or ask. I'm not sure if all true or just that I don't chat with them now.

 Plus supposedly my one my mom's friends saying things I guess I just wanna know why not actually said to me. Like my deadname and ask me why Quinn Then I could defend and answer. Not get 2nd 3rd hand info and not know how much true 

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