A SHINNY TRAP

 As I sit alone in my basement, listening to music and reading I know in the house I'm not truly alone.

I'm only alone when I'm without my parents I know strange. Why is this a fact, because my parents are clouds huge clouds that do as much as they can to destroy this rainbow. This rainbow more and more everyday has found different ways to shine, however the certainly didn't do it alone.

 I'll give out to a few people who really helped me and continue to. Aubyn Baker Tom Gallagher, Eileen Murray Jennifer Cannon, Kathryn Slagle,  Teresa Stallone. I of course have others and they of course helped. But these were ones who were really there the most whether it was online or in person when I came out

It's nice having many friends who back me up as being in LGBTQ community and love ❤️ my chosen name the one that makes me feel so euphoric Quinn.


. It's amazing how it has caught on.  Seeing all those rainbows in my life on hard days really brightens my day

 Now being out as both bisexual and non binary the support is amazing. I think I've met people NO I know I've met people along the way that I wouldn't have if this rainbow had not been trapped behind the clouds of thier family. 

 Another think I think has helped me is breaking out and discovering Quinn. Finding Quin  has really helped me this past year I truly felt the sir and freedom I knew I needed. I love messenger phone poker. Messenger for lots of people seeing the name Quinn more and more at poker or at least just my proper last name. 

Even if I am silenced at home, something so many have said should not have happened I know that there is my community that will help this rainbow shine. 

(This is my own personal footnote. I was and still am hurt that my family didn't show any support)

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  1. AnonymousJuly 18, 2022 at 5:36 PM

    I wish I could choose the perfect name ..been trying for over two years I like a bunch of them
    But can’t seem to stick with any..

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