THE NON BINARY/GENDER FLUID QUINN

 🏳️‍🌈 As many of you know who have been reading my blogs, especially my coming out blogs. I am no longer going by my given/birth name. My name I am going by us now Quinn and I actually love both using it and hearing it, it makes me so happy to be reborn in a way. I thought it was interesting for lack of a better word when I discovered my bisexual/Non binary side. 

 Well I must say I'm much more blissful relaxed and enjoying my new life with the last few weeks coming out to people as Bisexual/Non binary/ Genderfluid. I feel in many ways I can be much more expressive and not have to worry about how I express myself. Well except to my family unfountunatley that will always be a tricky spot. But I did expect resistance I guess because of my moms bringing up and in situations like this my dad kind of goes along with everything.

 I know this isn't what most Non Binary people would do I identify a bit different. With my pronouns. Well for the time at least shall we say. When I was out first as Bisexual/Non Binary I identified as They/Them. I know identify covering almost the spectrum but for most part it's They/Them or He/Him. 

 Because I also have a part of me that has "discovered mixed in" Genderfluid I also at times relate all over the spectrum in different ways. So I could be They/Them or He/Him my biggest ones or at times I also feel I identify She/Her. Ya I know it seems like I'm more confused than ever but ever since I discovered my three sides Bisexual/Non Binary/Genderfluid it seems like my life has perfectly been put into three areas and there's that 1% left to play with so to speak.🏳️‍🌈

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